(originally published in The Daily Press - Religion Section, August 23, 2014)
“Humility” too
often is assigned a weak connotation in our culture, going against the dominant
values of competition, self-promotion, egotism, and hobnobbing. Ancillary dictionary definitions include
“ranking low in hierarchy; insignificant; low in condition or rank.” Humility,
from a biblical perspective, is something more to be understood.
Harvard did a
study that looked closely at how society participates in social ranking. The
control group was asked if they would rather earn $50,000 a year while other
people make $25,000 or would they
rather earn $100,000 a year while other people earned $250,000? The majority
responded that they would rather earn twice as much as others, even though it
meant having half as much.
This result is one
among thousands of experiments in behavioral economics demonstrating that rank
trumps absolute financial status. Moreover,
this flies in the face of the psychological myth known as homo economicus; where economic man is considered rational,
self-maximizing and efficient in making choices.
Not only is this
irrational, but diametrically opposed to the ways of God. Our behavior will consistently
reveal how we think. Does your behavior as a Christian model your belief? If
someone were to shadow you for a day, could you relax and be yourself or would
you feel a need to adjust some of your behaviors to coincide with your professed
belief?
I must confess I
am a left lane driver; when I drive into Pasadena during the week and get stuck
behind a car that disregards the “slower traffic keep right” instruction, I
don’t often have biblical thoughts toward them. Similarly, we would do well to
remember that everyone is traveling at a different pace along the road of
sanctification.
Contrary to the
ways of the world and this culture, Philippians 2 states that our attitude
“should be the same as that of Christ Jesus.” The text goes on to say we are to
be “like minded, one in spirit and purpose.”
Unity must be a
mental attitude as much as an actual practice. These qualities are essential
not just for our own personal spiritual growth and maturity, but also for the
spiritual growth and maturity of the church. The church is only as effective in
advancing the kingdom of God as the people comprising the body of Christ.
The next few
verses say to “do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in
humility consider others better than yourselves.” C.S. Lewis reminds us
“humility is not thinking less of yourself, it is thinking of yourself less.” Sometimes
we are blind to how we see
others and how we treat them based on our perceived needs, rights, or
privileges.
The ways of the world are dog
eat dog, replete in one-upmanship. Perhaps there is a place in your heart of
selfish ambition or vain conceit that masquerades as false humility. It’s
easier to have others to serve us; assigning social classes and rankings, and
stepping over others to get where we want to go.
This conflicts with the truth
that theologically, apart from God, we are not entitled to anything. We are the
ones that owe. Who we owe is God, and what we owe is this: “To love the
Lord our God with all our heart, mind, soul, and strength and to love our neighbor
as ourselves” (Luke 10:27).
If we are doing
that, we’ll stop keeping score of rights and wrongs, who’s in front or behind,
or the need to toot our own horn.
The repeated
message, not only in Philippians 2, but throughout the entire Bible, is to live
humbly as servants of Christ and obediently as children of God. Therein lies
the blessing. While the social ranking
studies at Harvard represent a majority that desires to rank first, we know
that as Christians, we aren’t supposed to socially categorize ourselves first
or even second. Imitating the humility
of Christ is to find true J-O-Y: Jesus, Others, You.
The Rev. Heidi Summers is affiliated with Freedom in Christ Ministries, is a board certified pastoral counselor, board certified life coach and is currently completing her doctorate at Fuller Theological Seminary.
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